At the start of this course, I have two objectives to accomplish. Firstly, the ability to strike a conversation with a complete stranger with ease. Secondly, the ability to be decisive in making any new decisions.
I can say for certainty that I have achieved my first objective. I had said before in my first blog post that I am aware of the other party’s body language, tone and the words he/she uses. With this knowledge, I can see whether the person is a thinker, feeling or auditory person. Hence, I mirror his posture, tone and words to get engagement and a sense of familiarity. With the knowledge of DISC personality, I became aware what words and sayings I should use to engage the person. With the lessons learned from this course, striking a conversation with a complete stranger has never been easier before and I was able to engage him/her in a personal level.
For my second objective, I still need to work on it. I am still trying to overcome my fear of trying new things and being decisive. For example, I was tasked to complete a game mechanic of a character and I was worried that I could not finish it on time. Usually, I would be busy worrying about it then doing actually work. Now, I just start working on it despite my worries and by the end of it, I had finished it on time. It gave me a gratifying feeling and increase in confidence about myself. By being more decisive, I was able to bring a memorable pitch presentation by wearing a sarong to class and presenting the idea of work culture sensitivity. At first, the idea sounded ridiculous but I knew it would sell the point of our presentation. Hence, I was able to sell the idea to my fellow classmates.
In conclusion, I am able to engage with people more comfortably now and I would need time to work on myself to be more decisive in following my decisions. It was a fun and enlightening course.
Hi Syarief,
ReplyDeleteIt is good that you have achieved your first objective congratulations on that!
It is good to put yourself in their shoes by mimicking them, good job on doing that!
Fear of trying new things and change is feared by other humans. Everyone is skeptical about new changes made but no fear, brave through it and perhaps at the end of it you might possibly attain new knowledge or enlightenment!
I am happy to see my fellow group mate is able to work comfortably with others! Good luck for your final exams!